
Have you ever considered what it must be like to be a widow (or, if you are a man, a widower)? I’ve been a widow for more than four years. I’ve already told you that I HATE that word – widow. But, that’s what I am – a widow. Every form I complete wants to know: married, single, widow. I always wonder why the form’s maker wants to know. A woman becomes a widow with the lack of a heartbeat.